Well this weekend has been pretty busy...well not at home for the weekend busy. We helped my sis and bro pack up there house...well the packing was basically done now came the moving stuff. It started out all peachy and then I did a dumby. I was attempting to carry a dresser drawer out of the house. They are kind of long and different shaped objects and well I successfully got the door open and got out of the house. I was attempting to close the door behind me and step off the stairs at the same time. I felt it would be easier to step off straight ahead instead of turning and going down the steps. Well we got snow and umm I lost my footing actually my ankle decided it didn't like what I was doing and decided to give out. I went down hard on my knee I have a scrape now on my knee and I kind of look like a 4 year old in the summer. My ankle hurt real bad and I felt the burn so I laid there for a moment and then my sis came out to find me in the snow. That day moving was kind of over for me. Last night I had the wonderful skin sticking to my sheets thing. It is an open wound and stuck to everything then I got out of bed and I felt like my ankle was being held in a vice grips. I knew that babying it would make it worse so I tied my shoe a little tighten and we were off for more fun. I was in a rather poo poo mood this morning because I could see what was coming actually I could feel it. My children were SUPPOSE to be with their dad this weekend so I could help my sis and when I talked to my oldest I told him that. He asked if he could come home and I said NO! Well once again he took it upon himself to make his own plans you know he is 9 years old.....whatever. He called my mom and instead of checking with me she went and picked them up. I knew this was bad. You see it is all good to pick them up but when they misbehave then I am to go get them. Just wonderful! At least when there at their dads I do not have to worry about them misbehaving at my moms its a given. She said to me are you coming home soon...ummm no then she said well I will keep them with me. I then said that we would be working tomorrow as well that is ALL that was said. After that my son called a few times asking me to come home because he was bored...mind you it is now 11:30 at night and everyone in my moms house was sleeping. No I was not going to leave and have my mom wake up wondering where he went.

I went to bed on Saturday right around 1am and I had set my clock for 9am to get up and get over there to get more done. When I left my mom and the kids were gone. I figured since I had told her it was safe to leave. SO I did. Not in the house 5 minutes and the phone is ringing I am now getting yelled at by my mom. I knew it was coming I just knew. It was my fault that I had left before they returned. WONDERFUL!!!!! I said I would just come home and take my kids but I was told to just stay there and I was hung up on. Now I am mad....why is this my fault? I had a place for the kids to be so I would not have to worry about exactly this. I stayed and helped and when I came home my kids were on the porch waiting for me outside. Now I am hot. I guess my kids got in a disagreement with the kids and they were told to leave. I don't get this at all. Why argue with kids you are the adult tell them how it is going to be. I am not bad mouthing my mom but I am upset about this. When I got in the house I had a LOOOOOONG talk with both of my kids and they are on punishment. My mother is basically not speaking to me and I am s till wondering what the hell I did. I guess sit is not for me to understand. I plan on giving her her space and maybe just maybe it will be understood that I did my part and it was other peoples decisions to change that. In the meantime I now have no idea who is going to watch the kids for me next Saturday when I am out of town doing a party....WONDERFUL just WONDERFUL! So to say the least I am not in the greatest of moods. I am ready to just go to bed. SO I think I will .